Thursday, April 24, 2014

A Rough Week

Few things in this life have been harder than telling my mother that I am going to die.

That was the message that Tami and I delivered to my parents today after another abdominal drain and extensive consultation with my doctor.  Things aren't going my way in the cancer department lately.  We learned this week that my time in the physical realm is shorter than we thought.  Potentially much shorter.  Needless to say, it's been a rough week for both of us.

Last week I had 3 liters of fluid drained from my abdomen.  This fluid is called ascites.  Normally it is caused by a failing liver.  But sometimes it can be a sign of something worse.  Well, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to look at my liver numbers and functions and make the assumption that my particular ascites was being brought on by poor liver function.  So we started treating it from that perspective.  We also had a routine sample sent to pathology to look for anything more nefarious.

On Tuesday we were given the news that my ascites was malignant.  This isn't good news.  In fact, it's about the worst news we could've gotten.  If you look up malignant ascites you see words like "dire" and "extremely poor" when it comes to prognosis and outlook.  When you look at the numbers, the news gets even worse (even though I don't put much stock in numbers...) with a mean survival rate of about 4 months.  Unfortunately it doesn't react well to chemo and well...it's pretty damn nasty.

Options?  Not many.  We are looking into a new chemo drug that would give us a possible chance with the ascites, but is much less effective on my primary cancer.  Oh yeah...and insurance has an annoying issue of denying it's coverage.  I've applied for financial assistance from the drug company but I have little chance of being approved.  So, for the low low price of $12,000 every two weeks I could roll the dice.  We're hoping that the insurance just covers it and I don't have to make that decision. 

Another option is an interesting one...although a bit terrifying.  It would involve 2 different surgeries conducted back to back (10 or more hours on the operating table).  Interestingly enough, this might be the first time both surgeries are conducted at the same time anywhere in the world. 

The first is a relatively low risk surgery that would be focused on the ascites.  Basically, I would be split open right down the middle and the surgeons would try to find every bit of  tumor cell in my abdomen (none in the liver, just the abdominal cavity).  I would then be "filled" with hot water and a drug mixture that would be aimed at slowing down the ascites or making it go away for a while.  The second surgery would  involve installing an Hepatic Arterial Infusion (HAI) pump.  This is basically a super concentrated chemo treatment that lasts 2 weeks at a time and is focused on the liver specifically.  The concern here is that my liver...well...let's face it; it's not in the best shape right now.  The surgeon is currently very concerned about the idea of this surgery in my condition.  Unlike the first part, this part is high risk, with a possibility of me a) not making it off the table or b) dying within 30 days of the surgery due to liver failure or complications.

Kind of a tough choice...don't do it and look at planning my going away party in a few months...or (assuming that the surgeon agrees to do it) go for broke and potentially depart even sooner with no guarantee of prolonged lifespan.  We are looking at a 3rd option though.  When we meet with the surgeon next week we are going to ask if there is any benefit to just doing the first surgery to give a little more time to fight the ascites.  The issue with that approach is that it is a very invasive surgery and the recovery time will be extensive.  All the while I will have to suspend chemo.  That's the benefit of combining both surgeries.  The chemo to my liver would start almost immediately because it's already inserted in my abdomen.  

Of course there is always the option to simply stop treatment and spend the last few months of my life just managing pain and symptoms while I let nature take it's course.  I'm not ready to make that call right now.  I still have a little fight left in me. 

I know many of you will have questions, or want to visit.  Right now, Tami and I need some time to process everything.  If you call and we don't answer, we may be at an appointment or we may be just not answering for a bit.  Just know that we want to talk to you but may have to call you back.  As far as visits go, just be prepared to have plans change.  So many things are up in the air right now that I can't even plan the next 48 hours with any certainty. 

You will also see me making light of this situation, which may seem morbid and inappropriate...but it's how I cope and I intend to smile as much as humanly possible for the next few months.  I would ask you to smile as well.  Nothing helps you feel better than a smile sometimes.  If you need to find a reason to smile just remember how full and happy all you have helped make my life.  That's what helps me smile. 

I'm not stopping the blog.  I want to keep all of you informed and it really helps me deal with all of this.  It's also going to be a place where I can ruminate on good times and bad along with providing status updates.

After you read this I want you to find something to read/watch/otherwise experience that makes you laugh for at least five minutes straight.  And then show it to someone else.  :)

I love you all.

Jake

Friday, April 18, 2014

Treatment #11 - Or "How to lose 10 lbs in 20 minutes"

I've been unable to blog for the last 2 weeks because of some very intense physical and emotional pain.  Things have been going downhill for a bit now, with confusing numbers and new challenges that seem insurmountable at times.  While things with my cancer seem to be improving, things with my liver in general seem to be spiraling downward with the biggest issues being in the last 2 weeks. 

Itchy and Scratchy
For the last 3-4 weeks I've had an off and on again full body rash.  We've looked at several different causes for this with no luck.  We also have yet to find a good long term source of relief.  Of all the lotions and salves and balms, I get about 20 minutes of itch relief from calamine lotion.  20 minutes isn't a long time when everything itches for days...yes...everything.  And that's all I'll say about that.

Liquid Belly
Over the same period I've had an increasingly large abdomen, sometimes growing by the day.  In the beginning I thought it was gas pain, but as it kept growing and becoming more and more painful, we started suspecting something else.  2 weeks ago I had a CT scan that revealed fluid in my abdomen (otherwise known as ascites).  Now, we all have some fluid in our abdomen that acts as a natural lubricant for our internal organs, but not in the amounts that can been seen on a CT scan.  Just yesterday (2 weeks later) I had an ultrasound to determine how much fluid was present.  This led to an immediate paracentesis (draining of the fluid) that resulted in the removal of 3 liters of fluid from my abdomen over 20 minutes.  That means a 10 pound weight loss in less time than it takes to watch a news broadcast.  Ummmm...wow.  And they didn't take it all...and it's coming back already. 

This condition impacts every detail of my day.  I can't eat because of the pressure in my abdomen.  I can't sleep because every horizontal position results in painful pressure.  It's possible that the cause of my ascites (a failing liver or blocked bile duct) is also the cause of my itchiness and my restroom issues (I'm having real issues urinating now, with a typical session taking around 5 minutes to finish and only happening twice a day no matter how much liquid I consume.).  The direct cause of the ascites is an elevated bilirubin level.  Both direct and total bilirubin numbers have been high in my labs over the last 2 measurements (4 weeks).  We don't know why my bilirubin levels are high yet, but if they continue to increase at the levels we are seeing, I can expect to see jaundice in the next couple of weeks.  First the whites of my eyes will yellow and then my skin will follow.  My ascites will also continue.  If I have to have it drained too often, they will install a tap in my abdomen that I have to use to drain my abdomen at home on an ongoing basis. 

What does it all mean?

Who the hell knows at this point.  From a cancer perspective, I'm still moving in the right direction with a new lower CEA number of 86.8 and encouraging scan results.  From a weight loss perspective, I've been living with a red herring.  The only thing keeping my weight stabilized was the growing subterranean reservoir in my gut.  Even with a little fluid still stuck down there I'm at a weight I haven't seen since the early '90s.  So the weight loss continues and presents an issue when we look at what dietary restrictions pop up for treating my liver. 

My Dr is thinking that a possibility for the liver issues is drug toxicity.  This means that we cut out another one of my chemo drugs today and added the other back in.  So the zaltrap is back in and the irinotecan is out.  The benefit of this is that today has been a much better chemo day without all of the confusion and nausea.  The bad part is that it is a shot in the dark that we have to wait two weeks to see any results from.

None of this is good for my frame of mind.  Constant pain and being locked in a skin suit made of old rough wool wears on a guy.  I put a smile on my face as much as I can, but it gets harder with each passing day.  Add to that the fact that I'm still facing multiple things that can kill me pretty soon...and the general feeling around the house is less than positive at times.  But we do try to add some perspective and focus on the task at hand.  Sometimes it's healthy to stop looking at the big picture for a limited time.  We'll just take each issue as it comes up and fight like hell to overcome adversity one step at a time.

When the weird looking yellow guy sits next you in a meeting or stands behind you in line at the grocery store, don't worry about it.  He's just adding a little color to the room.  ;)

Jake

Sunday, April 6, 2014

Treatment #10 and some mixed news

We've been through enough treatments now that the nurses know our names and we're starting to see other patients that we recognize and talk to from time to time.  Double digits...#10.  Before I get too far into the treatment update, I'll start with our Dr update after a host of CT and MRI scans.  If you're following my on FB, you'll have already seen a preview of this.

Scan results:

CT - No movement up into my lungs (yay), no big difference in my primary tumor (yay) and it looks like there may be slight shrinkage of the a couple tumors in my liver (double yay!!).  It also shows that my abdomen is filling up with fluid.  Not only is this troubling from a liver function perspective, but it is pretty uncomfortable.  If it continues we may have to look at draining it from time to time.   Sounds like fun. 

MRI - My brain hole is healthy and cancer free.  Unfortunately there isn't a good explanation for my headaches yet so I'm getting a referral to an ENT Doc.  Hopefully something tangible will come out of that meeting.  They've been getting bad enough to keep me from driving at times.

Dr Update:

For the past week I've had a rash all over my body that has really impacted my sleep and just been a general pain in the ass.  As of yet we have nothing to relate it back to so we are starting with the medications that I've had reactions to in the past.  In this case the Doc focused on one of my chemo drugs...Zaltrap.  We decided to skip the Zaltrap this treatment, which made me happy because I've had a bad reaction to it every time I get it.  She also put me on a tapering dose of steroids to see if I could knock the rash down quickly.  We'll see how those work.

The other issue that we brought up to the Doc was the reaction that I'm having to my blood thinner injections.  My entire stomach is covered in erythema nodosum, which looks like a rash but isn't.  It's under the skin and goes away in 3-6 weeks IF you stop doing what's causing it.  Unfortunately I can't stop my injections so we have to start looking for a new place to do them.  And since it won't be in a spot that I can reach, Tami is going to be picking up a new skill...giving injections.  We will start in the arms in the next few days and see if the erythema shows up there as well.

My weight is continuing to stay even which is wonderful news.  The challenge of finding and choosing food that I can actually eat still plagues me on a daily basis.  Friday afternoon, I wanted pizza so we stopped and picked up a couple of pies.  I had one slice and immediately almost lost it to the sink.  I became very nauseous for the rest of the day and finally gave up my dinner just before bedtime.  So much for picking the right food that day.  :(  But last night we had success.  (I attribute some of this win to the steroids that I'm on.)  I wanted wings for some reason, so we ordered wings (garlic parm and mild original...because I'm a heat wussy now) and I ate them!  I haven't had an order of wings since before I was diagnosed.  It's the little things.  

So, most of the news this weekend has been positive.  Now to the not so hot news.  My CEA numbers are on the rise again.  I had dropped to 89.1 and was looking for another drop from there.  Instead I was greeted with a rise to 112.8.  That's higher than the last 2 measurements and is a real hit to the momentum.  My liver numbers are also on the rise, which isn't the best sign.  Nothing dangerous yet, but it does point to something not going quite right.  So these are the things that we need to watch.


Take some time this week to really focus on something or someone you love.  And don't forget to tell the people that you care about how much you appreciate them. 

I appreciate everyone who follows this blog and sends their thoughts and prayers our way.  We sure do need them. 

Jake

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Tired

I'm tired...
Tired of feeling spent after just half a day at work,
Tired of not sleeping through a single night,
Tired of daily bloody noses,
Tired of food being my enemy instead of the friend I once knew,
Tired of the rash that's taken over my stomach and is slowly crawling up my chest,
Tired of the darkness that invades the good times and tries to subvert hope and light,
Tired of pity,
Tired of falling over because my equilibrium is shot,
Tired of ending up on the floor doubled over in pain (like this morning) that won't go away,
Tired of Chemo,
Tired of the tears,
Tired of the drugs,
I'm just so tired...

This afternoon I slept for a couple of hours after I (thankfully) made it home from work.  I got almost no sleep last night due to major abdominal pain and cramping.  Unfortunately, each time I woke up and thought..."I should take something for this...", I would fall asleep again.  It forced me to go in to work late this morning and move some things around.  Thankfully, the short time I was at work was productive, but it was short lived.

The rash on my stomach is an allergic reaction to my blood thinner injections.  It's listed in the documentation for the drug and should be mostly harmless...but incredibly frustrating.  Almost all of my injection site options are now covered by a thick, pink continent that itches really really badly.  And worst of all...it's taken up residence in my belly button.  Oh the humanity!  Now we have to find new injection spots where Tami will have to handle giving me the shots.

We have multiple scans tomorrow and chemo #10 on Friday.  I start the day off with an MRI then, after a couple of hours to fast and drink water, I have two different CT scans.  I'm not a huge fan of IVs now that I have my port, but I don't want to add an extra day to the weekend that my port IS accessed, so I'll have to make due.  I get the results of these scan on Friday when I see the Dr before my chemo.  I'm hoping beyond hope that I don't have yet another reaction to the Zaltrap.  We'll see how it goes.

In good news...I haven't lost any more weight.  This is something that I should be yelling from the rafters while jumping up and down.  The fact is...I'm just not that excited right now.  I'm too tired to smile and pat myself on the back and celebrate.  All I want to do is go to bed and wait for my gut to stop hurting. 

*sigh*  This isn't really a positive note, but it reflects how I've been doing over the past couple of weeks.  Ups and downs, with what seems like more downs than the other. 

Tomorrow is a new day.  It really is a new opportunity to make it a great day.  I'll try to keep that in mind. 

Jake